tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30694204.post629741660313111029..comments2024-03-06T09:19:31.717-05:00Comments on Gossip Vixen..................: MORE EXCUSES FOR RIHANNA'S BEHAVIOR... THANKS EVAN ROGERSChronicmagazinehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10412973448735213392noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30694204.post-9957024177212712532009-03-19T19:26:00.000-04:002009-03-19T19:26:00.000-04:00I'm so tired of hearing about this "case"We all kn...I'm so tired of hearing about this "case"<BR/><BR/>We all know THEY need help.....ENOUGH ALREADY!!!Secretshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17200854246853790826noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30694204.post-69449503281604045702009-03-19T17:53:00.000-04:002009-03-19T17:53:00.000-04:00Rihanna and Chris may be in a kind of time warp, a...Rihanna and Chris may be in a kind of time warp, and not know it. I was abused all throughout my childhood by my dad. I thought that after he died when I was 15, that I was ok. Out of sight, out of mind. But that wasn't the case. I honestly feel like I have been paralized by the Physical, mental and emotional trauma that I had experienced when I was so young. I have had some counseling over the years, but it still didn't all go away and it never does. Abuse leaves terrible scars. Like one psychologist told me, "In order for a person to heal from abuse that has been going on for a long time, it takes years! Years for one to heal. It takes lots of counseling. You can't just go through counseling once and expect it will all go away." The victim in the abusive relationship needs to see that abuse is not love. It's the abuser's way of controlling his or (her) victim. (Because feelmales can be abusive also.) The abuser lacks self esteem and confidence that he can hold on to his partner so he resorts to control using crippling fear, physical abuse and emotional abuse. He doesn't know how to keep his mate, or so he thinks. But Rihanna will have to comes to terms with this herself. And Chris will have to come to terms with this hisself also. Rihanna and Chris should seek counseling alone on an individual basis. Give themselves time away from each other to heal alone, with their past and then what they have both been through. Then if they feel they want to stay together they should seek counseling together. And Chris will have to come to terms with the fact that he has to accept the consequences. No matter who he is. If he should wind up in jaoil He should seek counseling while he is in there. Remember, Rihanna and Chris are human beings. Money and being a celebrity doesn't make them any different. They are both hurting. And no just from this episode. They need our prayers.Carolhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02531826904072415504noreply@blogger.com